Gender Equality: Bhai, It’s Not That Deep… Or Is It?
Yaar, You Ever Wonder Why “Helping in the Kitchen” Is Treated Like a Nobel-Worthy Achievement?
So this one time, I was making chai (because obviously, I am the certified chai expert of my house), and my choti phuppo walks in and goes, “Wah beta, biwi ko kaafi araam milega.” And I just stood there, staring into my saucepan, like… what does my shaadi have to do with this doodh pati, phuppo?!
That got me thinking: Why do basic tasks like cooking, cleaning, or even listening to women suddenly make you “husband goals” in our society?
What is Gender Equality?
Let’s keep it simple: Gender equality means treating everyone the same regardless of their gender-equal rights, responsibilities, and opportunities. Aur haan, it doesn’t mean women become men or men become women calm down, Khalid uncle.
Why It Matters (Even If You Think It Doesn’t)
Let’s be real, gender equality isn’t just some “woke” concept imported from the West. It’s basic fairness, like getting equal biryani rations at a dawath. Everyone deserves the same respect, opportunities, and space, regardless of whether they wear a dupatta or a tie.
Here’s What Happens When Gender Equality Exists:
- Women can work without being judged for “neglecting their ghar”
- Men can cry during Humsafar and not be mocked (yes, we saw you, Asif bhai)
- Career options open up for everyone: nurse, pilot, CEO, YouTuber, jo marzi karo
- Pay gaps close, and so does the idea that men are “breadwinners by default”
And let’s not forget: Gender equality boosts economies, improves education, and reduces poverty. It’s literally the PSL of human rights, big impact, full drama, and everyone’s invested.
The Pakistani POV: Thora Progress, Thora Patriarchy
Pakistan is a fascinating mix of contradictions. We have female fighter pilots and aurat march on one side, and on the other, “beta, ladkiyan raat ko baahar nahi jaatein” energy.
Acha, so why is gender equality so hard here?
- Cultural baggage: centuries of “mard bara hota hai” thinking
- Misinterpreted religion: Islam literally gave women rights before the West even considered them human
- TV dramas: where 90% of the plot is just saas vs bahu and “aurat ka asli maqam”
- Workplace bias: Men get promoted, women get HR asking why they took a half-day
If you’re still not convinced, go watch Parizaad again and see how women characters are written either damsel in distress or evil corporate villain. (Also, check out our list of iconic dialogues from Pakistani dramas, you’ll see what I mean.)
What Nobody Tells You: It’s Not Just a Women’s Issue
Gender equality isn’t just “aurat rights” and slogans on placards. It’s also about:
- Letting men be vulnerable without being called chootiya
- Stopping toxic masculinity that forces guys to act “macho” even if they just want to cry in peace
- Respecting domestic work regardless of who’s doing it
- Sharing responsibilities at home—not “helping” but doing your part
Fun fact: Research shows that kids raised in gender-equal homes do better emotionally and academically. So yes, your future mini-me will thank you for doing the laundry.
Some Everyday Gender Equality Goals (That Won’t Kill You)
Want to do your part? Start with these chill, doable things:
- Don’t mansplain—unless someone asks you what “mansplaining” is
- Split the bill sometimes. Equality, remember?
- Stop judging women for their clothes, career choices, or number of Instagram followers
- Teach your siblings/kids that chores don’t come with gender tags
- Speak up when someone makes a sexist joke, even if it’s your favourite mamoo
Related Reads for the Curious Log:
- Dealing with Strict Parents
- Why Hobbies Are Important in Our Life
- Master Your Board Exams (Gender equality starts at home and school, folks!)
- Top Universities in Pakistan (where we hope both girls and boys thrive equally)
And if you’re ever wondering how to check your CNIC status or track your TCS parcel because obviously equal rights AND equal delivery updates, check out:
The Wrap-Up: Bhai, Bas Insaan Samjho, Gender Nahi
Look, nobody’s saying go out and lead a revolution (unless you’re into that). But next time someone says “aurat ka kaam hai,” just ask: “Kaunsa clause hai yeh Constitution mein?”
Because gender equality isn’t about giving women extra rights. It’s about giving everyone their basic rights.
Tag your cousin who still says “feminism is haram,”
Share this with your dad who’s still confused about “helping out” at home,
And tell me I’m wrong in the comments—I dare you. 😎
Explore more chill content in our Light Mood section, or catch up on Education to see how gender equality ties into learning, career, and life goals.
#EqualityForAll ✊🏽
